I haven’t tackled this subject in my posts, which actually surprises me considering that it’s one that is chased after by many areas of the community.
Can I get rid of this?
Can I just stop thinking of diapers?
Can I get rid of wanting to be little?
Can I leave this part of my life?
I’m a very big advocate of free will, if you have the will and ability to abstain, then there is a possibility you can forget about the ABDL scene. But before you go and try it, let me explain.
More often than not, prolonged abstinence from diapers will bring unexpected and harsh results. Many, and I talk from experience, who have attempted to stop without any help will find the road to be challenging.
For many who deny themselves their desires will find that they have developed self-loathing thoughts. Those thoughts will fester and your stress levels will raise, perhaps resulting in depression.
Please remember that you never asked for these feelings, we didn’t go to sleep one night and think “God, I wish I was a TBDL.”
We never asked for this and unfortunately we’re forced into it.
Therefore, I think the only real way to get rid of our desires is through extensive talk-therapy with a therapist and through medications. I have not heard yet of anyone that has been able to fully leave this part of their identity in the past without the administration of medicines and therapy.
I’m hesitant to compare the ABDL community to the LGBT community simply because I’m risking major backlash, but it is very relatable in the sense that this is part of who we are, and for the most part, we can’t change who we are.
It may be hard to get rid of your desires, but if you are hell-bent on doing so, my advice would to be to notify your parents, which I will tackle soon. And to contact a therapist and see where you can go from there.
To those that are questioning whether they should do this or not. I encourage you to experiment and be true to yourselves. Do you want to get rid of this? You don’t have to, in fact I can tell you that this has brought me and a number of people happiness and made us very content with our lives.
To those that question it, balance this aspect of your lives. Your lives as TBDLs won’t hurt you or anyone around you and it might bring you a sense of happiness, so why change it? Why change this part of you?
If there is one thing I want you to understand from this entire post it is that self-acceptance and self-love is key. Not just to TBDLs, but to everyone.
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You can get rid of this with dedication and commitment, but I heavily recommend for you to learn to love yourselves and accept yourselves for who you are. There is no need to kill off this part of yourself.
Be true to yourselves if no one else.